baby playing with the kids.

thats how we got there and baby's ride got punctured.

i was too tired and took a rest while they continued

today is boring day.....

lol.

Wed: alighted baby at the office after his morning training and headed to Limau Gdn to kill time. my meeting with the client was about an hour away that's just two streets away from my cousin's place. weileen was on MC, she had gastric flu. chatted for the whole time. she too got a new apartment with her fiance. and the house will be ready about the same time as us. and getting married is just a matter of time.

she then told asked me if i've joined any forum/ seminar / course on marraige preparation.

the reason being when a couple plans for their big day, many factors has to be considered and many people will be involved especially when we're from a traditional family who cares very much on the details. this could well lead to both the young ones to be stressed out and eventually forget about the real objective of planning and being together.

this didnt cross my mind and when she brought it up. it got me thinking and realise that if we want the perfect wedding and marraige, we definitely need to go thru this course/ seminar.

getting the flat and signing all the confirmation and contracts are well the same as signing the marraige contract.

it no longer feels the same. it could just be yesterday or last week that the contract has not been sign.

but even if its one min difference, you can feel it.

its like once you sign, all's fixed.

when you quarrel or fight, you need to resolve it fast. understand where things are coming from and move on. move on together with situations resolved. and not move alone.

breaking up is no longer an option.

if you need some time apart, yes do it.

but cool down soon and get over it.

no matters are too big to resolve if both of you truly love each other.

trust is the impt factor to consider when you are considering to be together for life.

often when there's a financial commitment, things gets more complicated.

therefore, trust is one very big word.

trust yourself, trust your feelings, trust the relationship, trust your partner, trust both family members and trust your friends' judgement on this relationship.

and because i see my parents and close friends have confidence in us, i feel even more confident in making things work no matter how difficult it may be sometimes.

cos these people only want the best for me, there are so many ears and eyes, they know who's right for me.

i love them, and i love my fiance even more.

=)

after the meeting, i headed back to office.

baby was out of office.

waited for him before going for tea break.

then twas to school for class after.

i kinda like this last semester, i used to hate attedning classes cos i find it a waste of time since i could do self study. but maybe also cos this is my last sem, i dont want to jeopardize anything, plus the students seem more fun.

lol.

my previous classmates used to just stay in class and discuss about proj proj proj that never are productive and end up not coming to a conclusion and have to meet online again to discuss the SAME thing. that caused me to not wanna go for class since they are doing it online as well.

lol.

but my current group, awesome. break time is solely really break time! cracking up and all.

proj is proj.

lecture is lecture.

maybe because this time our age are almost the same compared to last sem where some are mothers and older ones. they are nice but more naggy and draggy.

anyway, after class twas FOOD again.

getting fatter......................

lol.